Your Custom Text Here
Alex & Kate
WOOLSHED WEDDING
10 DECEMBER 2020 - TIPAPA ESTATE, GRETA VALLEY
Alex and Kate were married at the beautiful Tipapa Estate on a gloriously sunny day. It was the perfect garden party - guests dressed to the nines and ready to celebrate in style! Musician Lee Martin set the scene, and photographer Susie Blatchford was there to capture every delicious moment. The bride and groom had worked closely with Kate from Collective Concepts to plan their bespoke ‘All for Love’ wedding package… and it was absolutely magical!
One of my favourite parts of the ceremony was Kate’s entrance with her Dad, Gavin. This is always such a significant moment between father and daughter - I am pretty sure every single person was reaching for the tissues (including me!).
I love getting to know couples and the journey they have shared leading up to their wedding day. Alex and Kate’s story began when they were just 15 - though Alex, thinking Kate was older than she really was and wanting to make a good first impression, lied and said he was 17. If ever there was a sign that two people were meant to be together, it would surely be the fact that these two lovebirds were born in the same hospital on the very same day… and years later, living in the same neighbourhood, their paths were destined to cross.
The pair chose to write their own vows - each starting with the qualities they loved about the other, and finishing with the same promises. “I promise to continue to love you, to respect and support you, to be patient with you, to work together with you to achieve our goals, to accept you unconditionally and to share my life with you forever.”
I loved everything about this couple and their wedding day. All the best for your next chapter - stay in touch! xx
AROHA NUI,
Vic xxx
I highly recommend checking out Collective Concepts ‘All for Love’ wedding packages - “Collective Concepts is proud to introduce Canterbury’s first bespoke all inclusive wedding packages where you can custom create your perfect day that is uniquely you, with the personal and professional guidance of Kate and the team at Collective Concepts, while working in collaboration with an experienced and talented group of wedding vendors all handpicked by you. We can’t wait to get to know you and support you on your wedding planning journey. How good does a wedding day sound where you just bring yourselves, your wedding rings and your marriage license, and let us take care of the rest!”
Musician - Lee Martin
Photographer - Susie Blatchford
Venue - Tipapa Estate
Wedding Planner - Collective Concepts
Ryan & Katie
The Sign of the Bellbird is a stunning location, situated near the top of Summit Road in the Port Hills. It is perfect for elopements and intimate ceremonies!
REGISTRY WEDDING
20 NOVEMBER 2020 - SIGN OF THE BELLBIRD, CHRISTCHURCH
The Sign of the Bellbird is a stunning location, situated near the top of Summit Road in the Port Hills. It is perfect for elopements and intimate ceremonies! The views over Lyttelton Harbour and Hoon Hay Valley are breathtaking and make for beautiful photos (even on my average phone camera!).
Choosing to get married in the evening, Ryan and Katie’s registry wedding was simply magical. They had only their very closest family members and friends present. Despite the windy weather, the stone heritage hut where we held the ceremony was sheltered and offered complete protection from the elements. It was cosy and intimate. There was laughter, tears and even a toast (yes, pack your chilli bin and champagne, friends!!). A perfect way to kickstart the weekend - and of course, the marriage of a lifetime.
Registry Wedding Details
I will…
Offer a choice between two scripts with standard vows (provided by Births, Deaths & Marriages - read both options on pages 2/3/4 here)
Help you to apply for a marriage licence and ensure that legal requirements are met
Travel within the immediate Christchurch area
Print your paperwork to sign on the day
You will…
Provide the venue, two witnesses and optional guests (up to 20 only)
Show me a copy of your ID and pay a set fee of $90 prior to the ceremony taking place
More information about registry ceremonies can be found here.
There is nothing more exciting than beginning a new adventure together. I wish you both the very best for your next chapter! xx
AROHA NUI,
Vic xxx
“Ryan and I would just like to say thanks again for making our day happen! Everything went perfectly. You have great communication, and were very easy and helpful to deal with! Best of luck with your pregnancy and your whānau. Hope to see you again in the teaching world! ”
Aaron & Soxy
I just loved this weekday wedding - what a way to spend a Wednesday! Aaron and Soxy were married on the lawn at Ouruhia Hall with their closest family and friends. Thankfully, the sunshine emerged from the moody sky and we were blessed with a beautiful day!
REGISTRY WEDDING
11 NOVEMBER 2020 - OURUHIA HALL, CHRISTCHURCH
I just loved this weekday wedding - what a way to spend a Wednesday! Aaron and Soxy were married on the lawn at Ouruhia Hall with their closest family and friends. Thankfully, the sunshine emerged from the moody sky and we were blessed with a beautiful day!
There were so many lovely touches… The aisle lined with paper hearts, the driftwood archway hand-crafted by the groom, and baskets of rose petals. The involvement of family members, from wee babies to grandparents, was also very special.
Ouruhia Hall is a budget-friendly option if you are interested in the ‘DIY’ style of wedding. It has the capacity to fit up to 150 people so it is well suited for those with a larger guest list. Situated on a large domain, the hall is a ‘blank canvas’ for you to decorate as you please. Canterbury has such a variety of options - we are so lucky!
Congratulations to the newly married couple and all the best for your next chapter together!
AROHA NUI,
Vic xxx
“We had only email contact with Victoria leading up to our wedding - her response time was amazing and no question was left unanswered. We felt confident in her services and found her amazing, kind and a great presence on our big day.”
Corey & Sarah
After 15 years and two beautiful children together, Corey and Sarah were stoked to finally become Mr and Mrs Baker! They were married on the manicured lawn at Larcomb Vineyard, with a rustic red barn as the backdrop to their ceremony.
FIRST PERSONALISED CEREMONY OF THE SEASON!
10TH OCTOBER 2020 - LARCOMB VINEYARD, CHRISTCHURCH
Corey & Sarah - captured by Whimsical Wedding Photography at Larcomb Vineyard
After 15 years and two beautiful children together, Corey and Sarah were stoked to finally become Mr and Mrs Baker! They were married on the manicured lawn at Larcomb Vineyard, with a rustic red barn as the backdrop to their ceremony. I loved the entrance of the bridal party, lead by the cutest little Flower Girl and Page Boys you ever did see.
We acknowledged special family members and friends who are no longer with us, and those unable to travel due to Covid restrictions. Despite the rain, the smiles were bright - especially during Corey’s cheeky vows! And… instead of traditional confetti, the guests blew bubbles over the newly married couple as they walked down the aisle. Perfection!
“Sarah, my best friend, my love. You are the lucky one that gets to grow old with me… After being together for almost 15 years now, you have helped to shape me into the man I have become, and I am very grateful to have you by my side. With your kind heart, beautiful eyes and nice arse... I couldn’t ask for more!”
“Always remember I'd choose you, in a hundred lifetimes, in a hundred worlds, in any version of reality… I'd find you and I’d choose you.”
One of the coolest things about Larcomb Vineyard is that there are plenty of different locations to take portraits. The contrasting colours of the bright red shed with the deep greenery of the forestry made for beautiful photos, and Charmayne from Whimsical Wedding Photography did an amazing job capturing this badass crew!
Congratulations Mr and Mrs Baker! #finally
AROHA NUI,
Vic xxx
Photographer - Whimsical Photography
Venue - Larcomb Vineyard
Videographer - Moustache Media
“Thank you so much for being a part of our special day! You were very chilled and relaxed like us, which made the vibe so good. I will definitely be recommending you to anyone who asks! Once again, thank you.”
Ben & Marchelle
Registry Ceremonies are perfect for couples wanting a short, sweet and legal ceremony with their nearest and dearest :)
REGISTRY CEREMONY
2ND OCTOBER 2020 - PARKLANDS, CHRISTCHURCH
The traditional ‘big wedding day’ isn’t for everyone and Registry Ceremonies are perfect for couples wanting a short, sweet and legal ceremony with their nearest and dearest :) Ben and Marchelle held their ceremony at home with just their parents and fur babies to witness their special union. They started their day with a walk together and spent the weekend relaxing as husband and wife!
“No ceremony can create a marriage; only the couple can do that—through love and patience; through dedication and perseverance; through talking and listening, helping and supporting and believing in each other. What this ceremony can do is to witness and affirm the choice they make to stand together as life mates and partners.”
What’s super cool is that Ben is a videographer! His company is called Moustache Media - check out his awesome portfolio here. He captured his own wedding day AND we ended up working together today (10th October!) at another wedding. Stoked!
Images from Moustache Media gallery
Registry Wedding Details
I will…
Offer a choice between two scripts with standard vows (provided by Births, Deaths & Marriages - read both options on pages 2/3/4 here)
Help you to apply for a marriage licence and ensure that legal requirements are met
Travel within the immediate Christchurch area
Print your paperwork to sign on the day
You will…
Provide the venue, two witnesses and optional guests (up to 20 only)
Show me a copy of your ID and pay a set fee of $90 prior to the ceremony taking place
More information about registry ceremonies can be found here.
AROHA NUI,
Vic xxx
Videographer - Ben from Moustache Media
“Victoria was our celebrant for our registry ceremony and she made it so stress free and easy going - was just like an extra friend! She was everything you could ask for; caring, punctual, informative, organised, and with an engaging ‘stage’ presence. 100% would recommend!”
Dave & Georgia
Dave and Georgia’s intimate ceremony was held in one of the conservatories at the Christchurch Botanic Gardens with their closest family and friends.
INTIMATE CEREMONY
1ST AUGUST 2020 - TOWNEND HOUSE, BOTANICAL GARDENS
David + Georgia Murray - Sarah Clements Photography
Dave and Georgia’s intimate ceremony was held in one of the conservatories at the Christchurch Botanic Gardens with their closest family and friends. We entered through Cuningham House, originally called the Winter Gardens. The ceremony itself was held in Townend House, a beautiful flowering conservatory. From the second the music began to play for Georgia’s entrance, the tears began to flow. She looked absolutely stunning and I loved watching Dave’s face as she walked towards him.
Every ceremony celebrates the joining of two families, but this wedding was particularly special. Georgia’s son, Cooper, stood beside Dave as his ‘Best Little Man,’ and their wee baby Arlo sat with his grandparents in the front row. Cooper had a number of special roles in the ceremony - bravely sharing an emotional reading and being responsible for the rings. I nearly lost it when he sidled up to Dave and whispered ‘I love you.’ Such a precious family!
Dave and Georgia’s vows were so heartfelt and thoughtful. Again, tissues please!!
‘Cooper, the part I love best about your mum is that she had you. I didn’t just get a beautiful wife, I got a wonderful, kind and caring son as well. I promise you that I will always be there to look after you both. I will come to every sporting game you play, love you unconditionally and be proud to call you my son.’
‘Today seems like it’s the start of a new journey, but I already belong to you. Falling for you wasn’t falling at all - it was walking into a house and knowing you’re home. I love you not only today but for the rest of my life, David.’
After lockdown and a slow winter, I was so grateful to share Dave and Georgia’s special day with their beautiful family. It was simply magical.
AROHA NUI,
Vic xx
“You were so professional and easy to talk to. Everything felt genuine and nothing seemed like an issue to you - You made everything feel like a breeze which made us feel so happy we chose you. Thank you so much for making our day and being a part of it. You were the best! All the best for the future and your little babe! The journey is just starting. ”
Photographer - Sarah Clements
New Zealand Marriage Celebrants
Learning a little bit more about Marriage Celebrants…
Only those persons appointed by the Registrar-General as Marriage Celebrants and whose name appears in the List of Celebrants in the New Zealand Gazette have authority to solemnise marriages in New Zealand. I was excited to become registered as an Independent Marriage Celebrant on 5th June 2019 and later, to join the Celebrants Association of New Zealand (CANZ).
Why should you book a CANZ member as your Marriage Celebrant?
CANZ members create and facilitate ceremonies and rituals which respond to the diverse needs and values of New Zealand individuals, families and communities. In engaging a CANZ celebrant, you are gaining the assurance of employing a celebrant who belongs to the national professional body, a celebrant who has passed the association’s Code of Ethics and Professional Standards test, and a person who, more often than not, is committed to ongoing professional development with a strong network of fellow celebrants to call on if needed.
So, what is VCANZ?
CANZ has introduced a celebrant validation process known as VCANZ, which is a structured recognition of celebrant training, experience and professional development based on the CANZ body of knowledge. This gives couples additional certainty and greater comfort that a CANZ celebrant meets the professional standards of competency required for celebrant work. Also, only validated celebrants can legally perform Registry Ceremonies, no longer held at Births, Deaths and Marriages offices. I received my VCANZ status on 3rd June 2020 (and I cried LITERAL TEARS of joy!!!).
Why are Registry Ceremonies being held in the community?
Vaughan Millar (Senior Advisor at Services and Access - The Department of Internal Affairs) tells us more through a short history about the concept of validated CANZ celebrants performing registry ceremonies.
Like most change these days, it started with the Internet. In this case, marriage licence applications could be completed fully online from October 2018, which resulted in less walk-ins to a public counter. Other than signing declarations, the only other major work for the 47 registry offices was performing registry office marriages. With 10,000 appointed marriage celebrants, it made sense to give couples more options and a better customer experience by making better use of this pool of talent. It also provided an opportunity for more work for celebrants. Over the following 12 months the groundwork began to enable the outsourcing of registry weddings to celebrants in the community.
On 1 July 2019, the registry celebrant service was launched with 59 celebrants signed up in areas outside the centres where BDM had large offices – Christchurch, Wellington, Manukau and Auckland. The next step was taking advantage of the Wellington BDM office move early in 2020. The last day registry wedding ceremonies were held at the Wellington counter was on Friday, 31 January 2020 and on 1 February 2020, that work was handed over to VCANZ celebrants. The plan was to move registry office ceremonies in Christchurch, Manukau and Auckland to validated CANZ members on 1 December 2020 – similar to the process that had been successfully executed in Wellington. However, due to Covid19, this date was brought forward to early March 2020.
As of 12 May 2020, there are 129 registry celebrants spread across the length of New Zealand - BDM are out of the business of performing registry marriages, now sitting entirely with celebrants (including yours truly!).
What does this mean for YOU?
A celebrant is a deeply personal choice - someone who can connect with you and capture the essence of your true self. Their role is to share your story, encompassing your values and beliefs in a way that reflects your relationship. One of the most significant moments of my own wedding ceremony was when our celebrant, Sally, blessed us in te reo, grounding and connecting us to a particular place and time. For you, it may be a reading or a song, maybe a funny anecdote - your ceremony should be uniquely yours. In ten or twenty years time, you may not remember the exact words, but you will remember the way they made you feel. As a validated member of CANZ, and a lover of people and their stories, I am committed to creating something beautiful with you xx
AROHA NUI,
Vic xxx
*Please note: You can find out more about the different ceremonies I provide here.
Collective Concepts have a treat for you!
Introducing…
‘All for Love’ Bespoke Wedding Packages!
I am SO excited to be part of this incredible team and wanted to share some more information with you. How amazing does this sound!? Picture your wedding day… all you have to do is show up with your marriage licence and wedding rings, and Kate and her team will take care of the rest. Enjoy! xx
Collective Concepts is proud to introduce their ‘All for Love’ Bespoke Wedding Packages - all-inclusive packages where you can custom create your perfect day. You will work with Kate and the team at Collective Concepts, in collaboration with an experienced and talented group of wedding vendors (including me - just to toot my own horn) - all handpicked by you! Each wedding package is 100% customisable to suit your budget, preferred vendors and your own unique style.
There are three gorgeous venues - the rustic Tipapa Estate, luxurious Horotane Lodge, or intimate Taka Retreat - as well as a range of styling, florals, catering and cake vendors to choose from… and of course, some outstanding photographers to capture your special day!
Pop over to the website for step-by-step guidance to begin planning (this brochure may also come in handy). There are cost calculators to get a price estimate for 20, 40 or 60 guests, for a range of wedding celebrations from 3-6 hours - Kate really has thought of everything…
Mmmhmmm I hear you…. it’s dreamy, I know!! We can't wait to get to know you and support you on your wedding planning journey xxx Let’s create something beautiful together!
AROHA NUI,
Vic xxx
Get in touch with Kate and her team here:
email: weddings@collectiveconcepts.co.nz
phone: 0800 321 567
Josh & Jessie
BACKYARD WEDDING
MARCH 21, 2020 - PARKLANDS, CHRISTCHURCH
“Today, the two whānau become one. Josh and Jessie thank you in supporting them before, during and after their wedding as they come to terms with being a husband and wife. Their home will always be a place where you, their whānau, will find welcome, peace, love and support.”
Josh and Jessie chose to join their lives in the union of marriage at their home in Parklands. Josh, who creates beautiful handmade wooden products, had spent hours ensuring that their backyard would be the perfect location for their ceremony - and it was! Despite the grey skies, everything was picture perfect… a lush green lawn, bunting lining the playhouse, and lanterns dotted in the trees… Josh had even built the archway himself and created a handmade stand for signing the paperwork! This groom is clearly a ‘details’ kind of guy and it totally paid off. The love and care that went into setting up was obvious the second I walked through the gate. Jessie is one lucky lady!
Josh and Jessie’s nearest and dearest had travelled from around the country to celebrate their love. Jessie got ready down the road and when I arrived at their home, Josh was chilling in the lounge with his whānau. He introduced me to everyone and read their wee boy a story while waiting for the 10am ‘kick off’.
Josh and Jessie wrote their own vows which were shared with each other for the very first time during the ceremony. Josh vowed “I will dream with you, celebrate with you, and walk beside you in whatever our lives may bring. You are my person, my love and my life. Today and always.” Jessie promised “As your wife, I promise to love you each and every day. I promise to be the best wife and mother I can be. I promise to support you and always be in your corner. And I promise to respect you as the father of our children.”
My favourite part of the ceremony was when Josh’s Uncle Paul stood and moved down the aisle to deliver a karakia. It was so moving to hear the emotion in his voice as he blessed Josh and Jessie, encompassing the love of their whānau surrounding them. There is something incredibly powerful about listening to te reo, our native language, and it always brings me to tears. Thank you for sharing xx
I wish you both the very best in your marriage and the next chapter with your two beautiful children. I will definitely be in touch when we are ready for some handmade wooden baby toys!
AROHA NUI,
Vic xx
“Vic was bubbly, happy and outgoing. Her presence and personality was so warming. Vic was always there to help with fine details and questions we had, and gave a lot of good advice. She was an amazing celebrant for us. Vic ticked all the boxes! We can’t fault her service.”
Josh & Shelly
CANTERBURY ELOPEMENT
MARCH 24 - CHRISTCHURCH
I woke in the early morning to a message from Shelly, one of our long-term family friends…
“Hey Vic, as you know Josh and I were meant to get married in two weeks but with yesterday’s news, we have decided to get married today. We would love to have someone there for an hour or two to take photos.”
…and I was instantly wide awake! A different role than usual but a wedding!? A spontaneous elopement?! YES!!!
A little background… Shelly’s parents, Dave and Cindy, and her four siblings, played a significant part in my upbringing - attending netball and swimming tournaments, school events, shared holidays at the beach, and numerous special family occasions. I still remember Dave’s kindness and patience when he taught me to sail at Kawau Island on school camp. As a young child, he helped me to feel brave and capable of anything. My husband, Dan, and I were honoured to have Dave as the MC at our own wedding in February last year and we are exceptionally grateful for the support that Shelly’s family gave us on our special day.
Despite planning a large wedding to be held in April, Josh and Shelly knew that all they wanted going into lock down was to be husband and wife. Thus, a new dream was born - a whirlwind elopement in the Christchurch hills with only their very closest ‘home team’.
Josh and Shelly were married in the shelter of the trees at the Sign of the Takahe. My heart was racing a million miles an hour as Shelly walked down the track on Dave’s arm - I can only imagine how Josh must have been feeling! There is something so precious about the bond between father and daughter, and it was difficult to stop the tears from flowing.
As a celebrant, I love the part of the ceremony when it is time to ask for consent and exchange vows. There was a huge amount of laughter when Josh replied “I do” to Michelle and Shelly said “You’re supposed to look at me when you say that!”.
Josh and Shelly share strong family values, and are blessed that both of their parents have had long, healthy marriages. One of my favourite parts of the ceremony was when the two families joined together in prayer. This was a ceremony full of joy - it was natural, intentional and best of all… it was about two people who just wanted to be themselves with each other.
After the ceremony, we braved the wild winds and rain in the Port Hills. I was hoping we could capture a few moments before Shelly froze in her dress but there was nothing to worry about as this she-warrior didn’t even feel the cold! Talk about a bubble of love… she was on Cloud 9!
Thank you so much for letting me be part of your special day xx it was an absolute privilege.
AROHA NUI,
Vic xxx
New Zealand is now at Alert Level 4 which means anyone who is not involved in essential work needs to stay home in order to prevent the spread of Covid19. Though there may be restrictions in place, CANZ has advised that marriages can take place when we are back to Alert Level 1 or 2. This information is subject to change.
Celebrant - Michelle Diprose
Photographer - Victoria Thomas (woohoo!)
Scott & Kate
COSSARS WINESHED
MARCH 7, 2020 - TAI TAPU, CANTERBURY
“Kate, the idea of marrying your high school sweetheart has in recent years become something quite rare, which is why I am so glad we found each other when we did.”
Scott and Kate's story began in the Marlborough Sounds, their respective families’ holiday destination, about 15 years ago. Kate’s first memory of Scott was seeing him playing with ducklings in a stream by the camp shop. Interactions between the two were brief for the first few years but without fail they would get back in contact in the weeks prior to heading up to Momorangi Bay. By the end of the third summer spent together, Scott and Kate were inseparable.
They would bus to the local cinema, watch a movie and sit in the food court hand-in-hand for hours without speaking a word to one another. They eventually ran out of movies to go to, so Kate would get her parents to drop her off at Scott’s house on the weekends. This continued every single weekend for years until the pair travelled to Mexico together, got engaged and finally moved out of home.
Scott and Kate’s wedding was held at Cossars Wineshed, a beautiful rural property in Tai Tapu, Canterbury. Cossars has a gloriously high ceilinged dining hall and a stunning outdoor courtyard. I loved the set up... vintage couches, festoon lights and Mexican bunting (the perfect touch for Scott and Kate!). Scott and Kate were looked after by Safia, the general manager - casual sophistication was what Safia was going for and she totally nailed it! Hannah Bird captured Scott and Kate’s day beautifully too, including their ‘First Look’ at a secret undisclosed location...
The ceremony was held in the vines, and quite frankly, my heart could hardly handle the beauty of such a magical spot! Scott and Kate chose to write their vows together but their ceremony included a special twist... each had considered what they love most about one another and shared with me individually, so that their words could be shared as a surprise during the ceremony. Scott went first, and then I shared Kate’s words on her behalf - which took considerable effort because I was trying not to cry (thanks team)! Absolute perfection…
“I promise to be there when you need me, to share life’s little moments with, to fill your days with laughs, weird antics and bad jokes, to comfort you and encourage you when you need it the most, to help you achieve everything you want out of life, to be your best friend, and to love you forever.”
“I promise to be there when you need me, to share life’s little moments with, to laugh at your weird antics and bad jokes, to comfort you and encourage you when you need it the most, to help you achieve everything you want out of life, to be your best friend, and to love you forever.”
Congratulations, you beauties xxx I wish you all the very best in your marriage :)
AROHA NUI,
Vic xxx
“Thank you so much for everything you did for our wedding on Saturday! You made us both feel so comfortable and we loved how the ceremony went. You helped create such a perfect day for us and we are so soooo pleased with how it turned out! Once again, thank you soooo much for all that you did - everyone had the best day!”
Photographer - Hannah Bird Photography
Venue - Cossars
Mark & Cindy
THE OLIVE GROVE
FEBRUARY 29, 2020 - WAIPARA, CANTERBURY
“This ceremony will not create a relationship that does not already exist between you. It is, instead, an opportunity to celebrate your journey - as individuals, and together as a couple - surrounded by the people you love the most.”
Mark and Cindy were married at their home in Waipara, the beautiful ‘Olive Grove’. When I arrived, I was blown away by the gorgeous scenery. The marquee was set up on the lawn for the ceremony, as well as inside seating for the reception, the dance floor and DJ. I loved the understated elegance, enhanced by the olive branches and greenery in the florals. With the sides of the marquee up, the view of the olive trees was the perfect backdrop for the ceremony. The courtyard was decorated with festoon lights, wine barrels and wooden benches which tastefully complimented the stylish rustic theme.
I had a special moment with Cindy before the ceremony. She held my hands and told me she was ready. Her serenity was beautiful. Mark was overcome with emotion when Cindy walked down the aisle and I loved seeing his reaction - a very precious moment that I will treasure.
Mark and Cindy were surrounded by their family and friends, some travelling from the other side of the world to be there! Cindy’s mum was even able to share the experience through video call from Canada. Ah, the magic of technology… The family dogs were also included, adorned with sequinned bow ties (which they did not rate at all).
Mark and Cindy wrote their vows together, choosing to make promises based on their shared values and beliefs.
“I promise to respect and support you, to be patient and loving towards you, to work with you to achieve the things we value and dream of. I pledge to you all of these things from the bottom of my heart.”
Mark and Cindy really wanted to have a fantastic party with everyone and if the special sangria recipe was anything to go by, I have no doubt that their reception was an absolute ball! Melissa, their close friend and wedding planner from Social Events, organised everything SO well to ensure that Mark and Cindy had the best experience with all of their loved ones. Full credit to an amazing woman!
All the best for the next chapter in your already very special relationship xx
AROHA NUI,
Vic xxx
“Such a great experience to share our day with Vic, everything was perfect! She was so lovely to work with and took care of all the requirements for our marriage.”
“A huge thank you for the role you played in making Cindy & Mark’s wedding such an awesome day. The ceremony was just as they wanted and you created a beautiful energy and atmosphere. Such a pleasure working with you and I look forward to doing it again soon.”
Dan & Vic
As our first anniversary quickly approaches, I thought I would share a little of our own love story and reflect on our wedding day (BEST DAY EVER). Enjoy xx
As our first anniversary quickly approaches, I thought I would share a little of our own love story and reflect on our wedding day (BEST DAY EVER). Enjoy xx
Our Beginning
13th September 2013 - Wainui Street, Christchurch
Our story began on the 13th September 2013, while Dan was working as a draughtsman and I was in my final year of teacher training. Dan was living in a ‘boys flat’, which included our close friend, Jimmy. Jimmy’s girlfriend-now-wife, Liv, convinced me that I needed to come over after work to meet Jimmy’s single, good-looking flatmate ‘DT’ who was ‘just my type!’ Although I was initially reluctant after a long shift, I decided that I would pop in and if I liked the look of Dan, join the group in attending Jimmy’s gig that night. Within a few minutes of arriving at the flat, a tall, dark and handsome man had introduced himself and offered me a drink. I liked his manners, his dimples, and the rest is history… Snaps from the first day we met below - look at those baby faces!
Our Story
2013 - Present (All over the world)
Over the past six or so years, we have developed our own understanding of what love means to us. Early on in our relationship, around the time that ‘Fifty Shades of Grey’ came out and was being discussed heatedly on the radio, we decided to make their own contract… no, it’s not what you are thinking! We promised to always kiss each other hello and goodbye. Dan promised to talk to me about his feelings, as long as it is before 10.30pm so that he can get a good night’s sleep! Finally, we promised that we will both be open to compromise. This ‘contract’ became the foundation of our relationship.
As our relationship developed, love and trust became our day-to-day reality of half-asleep morning kisses, cooking meals, high fives and butt slaps on the netball court, and our own secret language… It grew further when we bought our house and then decided to spend two years based in London, travelling the UK and Europe at every opportunity. We visited nearly 30 countries so you can imagine how hard it would be to choose photos to share! Love and trust for us is the simple act of always being here for each other, being each other’s rock and anchor.
Our first home together - 2016
The Proposal
8th August 2017 - Zakynthos, Greece
*Setting The Scene (7th August)
After a five hour bus trip along the coast of Athens, we had the best seats in the house on the ferry to Zakynthos. The water was sparkling and there were schools of flying fish dancing across the surface. Our tent was surrounded by pine trees with a view of the ocean. It smelled like Christmas and home. There was the sound of cicadas, the wind in the trees and the waves crashing. It was magic. We hitchhiked into town to pick up our 50cc scooter to explore the island and spent the evening on the beach under the biggest full moon of the year.
*The Day (8th August - I had NO idea)
The sun woke us as our tent was bathed in golden light. We drove our scooter to the highest point of the island (though I had to get off the scooter and walk because it was so steep!). There was a 'Mamma Mia' church on the top of the cliff, with walls crumbling down to rubble and an old bell that still rings. Then, to my spiritual home - the ocean, the place I feel simultaneously most alive and at peace. It was here, on a secluded strip of the beach, that Dan proposed with his great-grandmother’s ring.
“You are the love of my life. You are my rock, my anchor, and I want to spend the rest of my life with you. Victoria Lawrence, will you marry me?”
We spent the afternoon snorkelling in water like glass, laughing, crying, and waiting for everyone at home to wake up so we could share the news! There were a LOT of excited video calls! A few days on, my face still hurt from smiling so much and I felt like my heart might explode.
We have a very special network of family and friends who make up our whānau and we were inundated with messages of love and support from all around the world. We loved celebrating with everyone when we returned home for the summer at the end of 2017.
Our Wedding
16 February 2019 - Whangapoua, Coromandel
The best way to get a feel for our day is to watch Isaac’s slideshow here. It still makes me cry every single time.
Whangapoua is where I spent much of my childhood at my grandparents’ bach. It is a place that represents growing up, summer swims, Mr Whippy, hide and seek, jam sessions, doing the dishes and many, many hands of cards. When I think of Whangapoua, I picture starry nights, taste salt in the air, and remember all the times I have spent there over the years with family and friends. There is a sense of inner peace and the feeling of being grounded. Though it would require a lot of effort and everyone would need to travel, I knew that it was the perfect place for us to be married.
Whangapoua Beach - captured by Sam Hitchman using a drone.
The wedding weekend was everything we hoped for - from Friday evening, when we met on the beach for sunset swims and nibbles to welcome everyone to our little piece of paradise, to Sunday, when we caught up to eat all of the leftover dessert for breakfast. One of the most special moments on Friday was when my mum, Aunty Lee and Aunty Maree presented us with a quilt that they had hand-stitched for us. There is fabric with pictures of rugby, cricket and netball, as well as a pile of books, a mermaid and school children - all sorts of images that symbolise our lives. It has fabric from my childhood peg apron and my mum's curtains when she was young. Lots of people had helped out with the process - my Nanna Shirl, cousins and family friends had all stitched small sections of it. We will treasure it always.
Saturday dawned, beautifully sunny with a light breeze. From the moment I woke up, every single sense was heightened. I have never felt so excited, nervous and happy all at once. I think I was pretty quiet most of the morning because I was trying to keep myself calm and remind myself to enjoy the moment and take it all in. It was a fairly relaxed start to the day (the guys were on set-up so not as relaxed for them!). I enjoyed going for a swim by myself then reading the letter Dan wrote to me on the beach. We didn't hire anyone to do our hair and Dan's mum (who is a beautician) did my makeup, so there wasn't heaps to do in the morning. It was so nice just hanging out with my sisters, Kelly and my mum. I loved seeing the wildflowers when they turned up and watching my bridal party get into their dresses - all the colours were perfect and they looked so beautiful. My mum let me borrow her garter that she wore on her wedding day, and I will never forget her helping me into my dress. Shortly after showing my bridal party my dress for the first time, my dad arrived and I got to show him too - no words can describe how significant that moment was but Isaac captured it perfectly.
The ceremony was held on the reserve by Pungapunga River, behind the family bach. Dan’s pounamu hung from the archway that Dan built himself, a surprise for me. The trees were lined with bunting, and handmade quilts from my mum and aunties dotted the grass. Guests wore an array of colourful sun hats that they selected at random from a wooden basket as they entered, which made me laugh when I saw them. My friend, Jamie, was helping us out for the day and he picked me and my dad up to take us to the ceremony. I remember sitting in the car - my fingertips and toes were tingling so much because I was incredibly nervous. My heart was pounding and my mouth was super dry. I really wanted to be on time because I didn't want Dan to be waiting for me. Coming around the corner and seeing everyone standing for us was so precious, and I wanted to look at everyone to acknowledge them, but I really only had eyes for Dan. Once I saw him, I couldn't stop smiling. It was my cousin Claire’s beautiful singing of’ Here Comes the Sun’ and my Dad’s emotion that set everyone off!
You may kiss the bride! Captured by Isaac from Perspectives Photo + Cinema.
It’s hard to pick a favourite moment from the day. I loved walking across the road to the beach throughout the night for barefoot photos with Dan, where we could cherish a moment together on our own, before returning to the marquee for hilarious speeches, tequila, and a full dance floor underneath festoon lights!
We didn’t hire a venue or additional staff, and I feel that as a result, our wedding was the perfect reflection of our relationship, because every person involved had played a special role in raising us, shaping us and journeying with us. Our team of family and friends, especially my mum and dad, spent hours and hours creating the wedding of our dreams - rustic, wild, elegant… we can’t thank them enough for the best day of our lives. It meant the world to share our day with the ones we love.
AROHA NUI,
Vic xx
Bride - Harlie by Made with Love, Felicity’s Bridal
Bridal Party - Blak
Caterer - Food Gurus
Celebrant - Sally Dobson
Chiller / Drinks - Liquor King, Coromandel
Florist - Wildflowers Coromandel
Musician - Claire Kendall
Photographer - Isaac de Reus, Perspectives Photo + Cinema
Stationery and website design - Alice McGall
Stretch Tent - Peninsula Party Hire Whitianga
Wedding Website - The Knot
Leon & Gabe
Leon and Gabe were married at Avebury House, a stunning heritage home nestled within Avebury Park.
AVEBURY HOUSE
FEBRUARY 7, 2020 - RICHMOND, CHRISTCHURCH
Leon & Gabe’s wedding - Photography by Sarah Clements
“Marriage is a commitment in life, where two people can find and bring out the very best in each other. It offers opportunities for sharing and growth that no other human relationship can equal, a physical and emotional joining that has the promise of a lifetime.”
Leon and Gabe were married at Avebury House, a stunning heritage home nestled within Avebury Park. The large lawn was perfect for the 160 members of Leon and Gabe’s whānau who were invited to share their special day.
I love the way everything comes together on a wedding day… the many hours of planning paying off and the opportunity to celebrate with the people you love the most. Kate from Collective Concepts was exceptional, ensuring that everything ran smoothly and the bride and groom could just ‘be’ on their special day. Leon and Gabe’s styling was absolute perfection in my eyes, with the rustic theme hitting home and taking me back to my own wedding day. I absolutely loved the glorious toetoes!! And the colours… that orange was just gorgeous. Beautiful work, team xx
Leon and Gabe chose to write their own vows - a true reflection of the love they share for each other and their son, Bodhi. In fact, their whole ceremony was inclusive of whānau with Gabe’s sister as her Maid of Honour, Leon and Gabe’s grandmothers as their witnesses, and Leon’s niece being in charge of the rings. Leon’s Aunty Michelle was remembered through the fantails in Gabe’s bouquet and the boys’ buttonholes.
“I promise to respect you as a mother, to cherish, nurture and guide Bodhi, and any other children, to respect and support their choices and raise them as kind and caring people.”
“I promise to continue our adventures together, to explore with you and make the most of this life. I will love you, always.”
I was also secretly (actually, not secretly AT ALL) stoked to finally meet Sarah Clements, whose photography journey I have been following forever. Not only are her photographs stunningly beautiful, Sarah is super down-to-earth with a great sense of humour. Talk about fan girling… I’m sure you all agree that she captured the essence of Leon and Gabe’s day perfectly. Check out the vendors’ links below to see Leon and Gabe’s whole day on Sarah’s blog!
Congratulations to a beautiful pair. I wish you all the very best in your future adventures xx
Please don’t be strangers!
AROHA NUI,
Vic xxx
“Wow, what a weekend! We had a beyond amazing wedding day on Friday and it couldn’t have been done without our wonderful vendors... Our wonderful celebrant created the most beautiful ceremony that captured the essence of Leon and me. Your guidance, your words and your creation of a unique ceremony, just for us, could not have been better.”
Bride’s Dress - Paperswan Bride
Florist - Harakeke Florist
Makeup - KM Makeup
Music - Ceremony Topia Music, Reception D’sendantz
Photographer - Sarah Clements
Venue - Ceremony @ Avebury House, Reception @ The Welder
Wedding Planner - Kate from Collective Concepts
Nadav & Kimmi
Nadav and Kimmi were married on a sunny day at their home in Kumeu, surrounded by their closest family and friends.
BACKYARD WEDDING
OCTOBER 26, 2019 - KUMEU, AUCKLAND
Nadav + Kimmi’s Wedding
“Marriage is a promise between two people who love each other, and who trust in that love, who honour each other as individuals, and who choose to spend the rest of their lives together.”
Nadav and Kimmi were married on a sunny day at their home in Kumeu, surrounded by their closest family and friends. When I arrived, both Nadav and Kimmi were relaxing with their guests - Nadav dressed in his suit and Kimmi waiting to change into her dress. The small backyard wedding suited the down-to-earth couple to a T.
Nadav and Kimmi chose to write their own beautiful vows which were shared with each other for the very first time during the ceremony.
“Getting married isn't just a ring or a piece of paper. It's a promise. Promising to be with you through all of life's adventures, promising to love and support you unconditionally, promising to be here always and never let go.”
“I don’t like to make decisions. But if there is one decision I make in my life that I know is the right one, it’s to spend the rest of my life with you.”
Nadav + Kimmi's Wedding
Nadav and Kimmi’s ceremony was particularly significant for me because it was the first ceremony that I have officiated! Thank you both for sharing your special day with me - being your celebrant was a wonderful experience that I will treasure always. Congratulations, I wish you all the very best in your marriage!
aroha nui,
Vic xx
“Vic is such an amazing celebrant. She is extremely passionate and organised. She made the day so easy and smooth. Would 100% recommend her.”
Photographer - Wanting Huang