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Isaac & Nina
COURTYARD WEDDING
20 FEBRUARY 2021 - COSSARS WINESHED
Isaac and Nina took Covid restrictions in their stride - no longer able to have the Fiji beach wedding they were hoping for, “Take 2!” was instead held in the beautiful courtyard at Cossars Wineshed. The vintage couches and festoon lights set the scene… and it was utterly gorgeous.
Throughout Issac and Nina’s relationship, they have learned that true love is not a fantasy, but something that they must consciously choose every day. As well as everyday adventures, they have experienced the hardship of family loss, and the joys of parenting together - and are stronger for it.
Love is patient and kind; love does not envy or boast; it is not arrogant or rude. It does not insist on its own way; it is not irritable or resentful; it does not rejoice at wrongdoing, but rejoices with the truth. Love bears all things, believes all things, hopes all things, endures all things. Love never ends.
Isaac and Nina’s ceremony was full of laughter. We all cracked up when Isaac had to dash from the ceremony to find a forgotten page from the handwritten vows… and when I asked Matthias for the rings, but he had cooler things to do and had disappeared to play (Alyssa shouted for him at the top of her lungs and he came running!).
These two were some of the nicest people I’ve ever had the pleasure of meeting. I just know that you will have a beautiful marriage xx
AROHA NUI,
Vic xxx
Photographer - Cassandra Kovacs Photography
Venue - Cossars Wineshed
Wilson & Fernanda
INTIMATE CEREMONY AT HOME
25 JUNE 2021 - SOCKBURN, CHRISTCHURCH
Wilson and Fernanda were married in a beautiful, intimate ceremony at their home in Sockburn, surrounded by their closest family and friends (including those who joined via video call from all around the world!). The energy in their cosy lounge was so warm and welcoming, full of love and support for the happy couple.
Originally opting for a registry ceremony, Wilson and Fernanda changed to a simple personalised ceremony so that they could include their pastor and make adaptations to the script. Their faith is extremely important to them and it was a pleasure to ‘tag team’ with Eduardo to create their dream ceremony. I’m always happy to discuss how to include others in your ceremony if this is something that you want!
“I, Wilson, take you, Fernanda, to be my wife; and I promise, before God and these witnesses, to be your loving and faithful husband; in plenty and in want; in joy and in sorrow; in sickness and in health; as long as we both shall live.”
“I, Fernanda, take you, Wilson, to be my husband; and I promise, before God and these witnesses, to be your loving and faithful wife; in plenty and in want; in joy and in sorrow; in sickness and in health; as long as we both shall live.”
Congratulations Mr and Mrs Coelho! It was a privilege to be part of your special day.
AROHA NUI,
Vic xxx
“Thank you so much Vic, it was such a pleasure to have you as our celebrant. Even my pastor commented that you are so easy to work with and that it was a fantastic ceremony. Thank you for making it so special, I will definitely recommend you to everyone that would like to get married, and my pastor will also do the same. Thank you once again!! :) We were very happy to have you as a celebrant. ”
Simon & Vanessa
Simon and Vanessa’s ceremony was held on an absolute scorcher of a day at a stunning spot in Methven!
METHVEN WEDDING
19 FEBRUARY 2021 - AWA AWA RATA RESERVE, METHVEN
Simon and Vanessa’s ceremony was held on an absolute scorcher of a day at a stunning spot in Methven! They had an epic team of vendors on board - I’ve linked them below so that you can check them out.
Simon and Vanessa's relationship began on a Facebook ‘singles’ page. After a few days chatting, Vanessa decided to take Simon some lunch. They met on the side of the road near where he was working in Waipara... As Vanessa says, "A way to a man's heart is through his stomach!” - One dinner later, they were officially boyfriend and girlfriend, and the rest is history.
Before the ceremony started, Simon was extremely emotional. He is head over heels for Vanessa and couldn’t believe their wedding day had finally arrived. Best Man, Nick, was a great support - taking Simon to one side and having a chat with him in the shade before the bridal party made their entrance. I was touched by their strong friendship. There wasn’t a dry eye in the house when Vanessa made her way down the aisle!
A wedding day is often a day when couples miss those who can’t be with them. We acknowledged Des, Simon’s groomsman and Vanessa's brother, who couldn’t make it due to Covid travel restrictions. Vanessa’s Aunty Joy also lit a candle in remembrance of Vanessa’s Dad, Ian.
A great way to include loved ones is through readings. Simon’s gorgeous wee cousin shared ‘Love is Giving’ with us.
“Love is giving not taking,
Mending not breaking,
Trusting, believing, never deceiving, patiently bearing and faithfully sharing,
Each joy, every sorrow, today and tomorrow.
Love is kind, understanding, but never demanding,
Love is constant, prevailing, its strength never failing,
A promise once spoken for all time unbroken,
Love’s time is forever.”
Simon and Vanessa chose to write their own vows which they shared with each other for the very first time during their ceremony.
“…You are beautiful, smart and strong, and I will love you every day for the rest of our lives together...”
“…My heart still skips a beat when I get that phone call - that you are on your way home from work. I love you today, tomorrow and for the rest of my life…”
Afterwards, the guests had nibbles and drinks together then made their way to Ski Time for a wonderful evening of yummy food, speeches and dancing.
All the best to this loved-up couple! xx
AROHA NUI,
Vic xxx
Catering - Smoke ‘n’ Barrel
DJ - Boogie Beats
Photographer - Focus Photography
Videographer - Frame Boy
Kurtus & Lily
GARDEN WEDDING
4 MARCH 2021 - HALSWELL QUARRY
Kurtus and Lily were married in an intimate ceremony surrounded by their closest family and friends. They chose a secluded spot in the beautiful Songpa-Gu Gardens at Halswell Quarry. If you haven’t visited, I highly recommend going for a walk around the ‘Sister Gardens’. This particular garden has a botanical collection that represents Korea, as well as our own landscape here in Canterbury.
Kurtus and Lily chose to break tradition in a few ways! That is the beauty of a personalised ceremony, my friends… you can make it totally your own. Instead of an archway, the pair set up in front of one of the monuments, using a framed photograph of themselves to mark where they were going to stand. They also opted not to have a first kiss - an epic, and rather spontaneous fist pump sealed this marriage!
This was my last ceremony of the season before beginning my maternity leave… and I was ready to pop! Maia Elizabeth Jo arrived 9 days later and I have since been settling into life as an earthside māmā. Our wee whānau is doing really well! I have been sharing a few updates over on Instagram @victoriathomas.celebrant - if you’re interested, prepare your ovaries and head on over for some super cute baby snaps.
AROHA NUI,
Vic xxx
“Everything was great! Couldn’t have asked for a better person to help us continue our next chapter.”
Matt & Steph
GARDEN WEDDING
23 JANUARY 2021 - BRAMBLE GROVE, KAIAPOI
Matt and Steph were married at the lovely Bramble Grove in Kaiapoi. I was so excited to finally get a chance to visit and I was not disappointed! The intimate backyard setting complete with an outdoor bar had a relaxed atmosphere that the guests absolutely loved.
One of my favourite parts of Matt and Steph’s ceremony was chatting with Matt and his groomsmen beforehand… hearing how the morning had been, doing a final run-through of the script, and calming those pre-ceremony nerves. I love it when a groom acknowledges and allows himself to express his emotions in the lead up to one of the most significant experiences he is ever going to share with his future partner. And who could blame him for being completely overwhelmed with love? Steph was glowing… honestly, the only word I can use is ‘radiant.’ Her smile throughout the day was simply the best and Mel from Mel’s Moments captured her perfectly. The photos speak for themselves.
“Steph, as I stand here with you today, I feel like the luckiest man in the world. I want nothing more than to share my future with you…”
“Matt, you are everything that I could ever dream of in a man. You are my lover, my best friend, my protector, my soulmate, and my home…”
A few other highlights…
The most gorgeous wee flower girl and ringbearers - such a great way to include children in their special day!
Finally meeting Mel. I was so grateful that she looked after me in the heat - what an absolute gem.
One of the guests approaching me after the ceremony and saying how much he had enjoyed it. He explained that he struggles with his hearing but had found my delivery clear and easy to understand. I was touched that he took the time to come and chat - it really meant a lot getting positive feedback.
Thank you both so much for sharing your special day with me xxx it was magical.
AROHA NUI,
Vic xxx
P.S. Get in touch if you want to know more about the ‘Shoe Game!’ (pictured above).
Photographer - Mel’s Moments
Venue - Bramble Grove
“Vic, you were amazing. We really couldn’t have asked for a better celebrant. Thank you sooo much for making the process very easy and answering all of our emails and questions. Thank you very much for all the hard work you put into making our day perfect. We didn’t have to worry about a thing - you had everything covered.”
Nitin & Krina
Nitin and Krina celebrated their love with a full wedding weekend. They held their Hindu ceremony at the Lincoln Events Centre on Saturday and their legal ceremony at Pemberton Gardens on Saturday.
GARDEN WEDDING
06 DECEMBER 2020 - PEMBERTON GARDENS, CANTERBURY
Nitin and Krina celebrated their love with a full wedding weekend. They held their Hindu ceremony at the Lincoln Events Centre on Saturday and their legal ceremony at Pemberton Gardens on Saturday. After hearing so much about Pemberton Gardens, I was really excited to officiate Nitin and Krina’s wedding ceremony there. It was well worth the wait! Such a stunning venue - lush gardens complete with bunny rabbits hopping around, a range of different spaces to use - and best of all, blankets and hot water bottles on a chilly day!
Nitin and Krina are a super relaxed couple and wanted their special day to be full of laughter. We all cracked up when the mic cut out just as Nitin said ‘I do!’ and Krina had to reassure the guests… ‘HE DOES!’
Their vows were funny too…
…from the opening lines…
“Nitin, the day has finally come - who knew that when we were introduced and spoke for all of 30 seconds before you ran away that we’d be standing here today.”
“Krina, I'm so proud to be sharing this special moment of our lives with our friends and family today. From the weekend I came up to Auckland to hang out with you for the first time, to the time you craved a trip to Nandos for a feast, I knew you were a keeper!“
…to their promises…
“…And lastly, I promise to try and be more comforting when the Crusaders beat the Hurricanes even though I’m rather pleased on the inside…”
“I promise to listen to you (even if you have to repeat yourself three times)…”
Nitin and Krina were so much fun to work with! I only wish they lived in Christchurch so we could hang out!!
All the best for your next chapter xx I know you won’t be strangers.
AROHA NUI,
Vic xxx
Photographer - Mala, Paul Tatterson
Venue - Pemberton Gardens
“We had the absolute pleasure of having Vic as our celebrant and sharing our ceremony with us. We had our initial meeting via Skype during lockdown and instantly knew she was perfect for us! She made the process so easy and catered to what we were after, we really couldn’t have asked for anything more - thank you so much Vic xxx”
Nic & Rose
Rose and Nic were married in an intimate wedding ceremony with their closest family and friends.
GARDEN WEDDING
12 DECEMBER 2020 - PEMBERTON GARDENS, CANTERBURY
Rose and Nic were married in an intimate ceremony with their closest family and friends. The sun was shining and everyone was stoked to be there. In my opinion, it was the perfect garden party - the setting was elegant and classy, and all the ‘little details’ complimented each other beautifully.
Rose and Nic broke tradition in a number of ways. They had a ‘first look’ before the ceremony, Rose walked herself down the aisle, and the pair shared a kiss and cuddle when she got there. It was exactly how a personalised wedding ceremony should be… uniquely their own, a perfect reflection of their values and beliefs.
“Rose, I couldn’t be happier than I am standing here today, about to take another step along the winding road with you. This does not mark the beginning of our adventure, because we have already been through so much together, but the continuation of our story that started the day I met you. This day will solidify the bond that we’ve always had, and bring us into the next chapter in our lives.”
“Nic, I can’t be certain of what our future may hold, but I am certain that we will face it together, with our love for each other as the foundation of every success and setback. I am inspired by who you are; persistent, thoughtful, generous and sensitive. I will always be grateful that you show your love for me with these qualities. I stand here today, and every day ahead of us, to give myself to you, promising to weather whatever will be as your loving wife and best friend.”
Right from the word ‘go’, Rose and Nic treated me like a friend they had known for years. I loved our communication throughout the planning process - flicking quick messages back and forth, or chatting on the phone about the order of service, wording of vows, and back-up plans incase Covid decided to rain on our parade. On the day, I felt so appreciated by these two beautiful humans. I was overwhelmed with hugs, kind words and was even invited to be in the group photo after the ceremony. It meant a lot to me.
I am already so excited for the adventures you are about to have. All the best for your next chapter xx
AROHA NUI,
Vic xxx
Photographer - Jayden Wall
Venue - Pemberton Gardens
“Thank you so much for all your help. The Google doc to create the ceremony was a real asset and easy to navigate. Vic, you have a real gift for hearing what couples want and helping curate something really personal. From day 1 you had ideas and ways of bringing it all together to perfect a modern ceremony.
It was a pleasure to share our wedding day with you and we felt so well supported by you through the entire process. We had guests say how impressed they were by you and also note that you stood to the side the whole time and how that was visually much more impressive than typical celebrants.
Can’t wait to see you become a mum to your gorgeous pēpi, wishing you all the best.”
Andrew & Jess
Self-professed ‘Star Wars Nerds’ Andrew and Jess were married on a hot, windy day at Westhaven Gardens, after postponing their ceremony due to Covid earlier in the year.
COVID CAN’T BEAT LOVE!
31 OCTOBER 2020 - WESTHAVEN GARDENS, CHRISTCHURCH
Self-professed ‘Star Wars Nerds’ Andrew and Jess were married on a hot, windy day at Westhaven Gardens, after postponing their ceremony due to Covid earlier in the year.
The venue was simply stunning! I was blown away by the manicured gardens, lush green lawns and intimate wee chapel. Andrew and Jess set up a marquee for the reception, as well. There were plenty of trees for shade before the ceremony, and a variety of lawn games for entertainment afterwards.
Andrew set up a live stream for guests who were unable to attend due to Covid restrictions, and Emma Smart did an amazing job of capturing the day. I thought that Jess’ veil looked stunning as it floated in the breeze.
Both Mums were invited to share a reading, which was a really nice way of involving them in the ceremony. There were lots of happy tears, especially when Andrew and Jess shared their vows with each other.
“…I promise to love you with all I have to give and all that I am, completely and forever.”
“…I can’t wait to continue to make a life with you and have many adventures. With you by my side, I know we can get through anything.”
Something particularly special for me was feeling my baby fluttering while we were signing the paperwork. It was a magical experience and I am so grateful that this Little Bean has been surrounded by love and happiness as it grows.
All the best for married life, Andrew and Jess!
AROHA NUI,
Vic xxx
Photographer - Emma Smart
Liam & Sara
Liam and Sara were married on the lush green lawn of Whispering Oaks, surrounded by family, friends, and farm animals - including bunny rabbits, horses and one particularly vocal donkey!
BARNYARD WEDDING
28 NOVEMBER 2020 - WHISPERING OAKS, CANTERBURY
Liam and Sara were married on the lush green lawn of Whispering Oaks, surrounded by family, friends, and farm animals - including bunny rabbits, horses and one particularly vocal donkey!
The beauty of Whispering Oaks is that it is a ‘DIY’ venue… and Sara is SUPER crafty so it suited her to a tee! The reception was held in the barn and she did an amazing job with the signage, decorations and favours. I loved the way the whole family pulled together to get everything set up, too - it reminded me of my own wedding.
The ceremony itself was beautiful. I love it when a bride and groom allow themselves to be vulnerable and feel into all of the emotions of the occasion. Happy tears are the best! Little Connor was a gorgeous ring bearer and I loved inviting Liam and Sara’s Mums to be the witnesses.
“…Although I may not be perfect, I vow to support you throughout life’s ups and downs, and make sure I wrap my arms around you every night before we go to sleep. I love you Sara, and I am excited to see the future we create together...”
“…You are my better half and my best friend. I will love you, honour you, respect you, and cherish you though all our adventures and challenges. I am yours forever and always…”
Another big highlight for me was working with Sarah Clements, who is not only an amazing photographer but has also become a friend. As always, she did an incredible job capturing all of the special moments throughout Liam and Sara’s day. She books out well in advance so make sure you get in touch soon if you want her to be part of your wedding!
All the best for your next chapter, Liam and Sara xxx
AROHA NUI,
Vic xxx
Photographer - Sarah Clements
“We’d like to thank you again for helping make our day that much easier and for your personal touch!”
P.S. Hot tip! We had a few issues with the sound system and I think it’s helpful to let you know that it doesn’t worry me at all when a sound system isn’t playing ball. As a primary school teacher, I am used to speaking to large crowds without a mic! However, it can make it tricky for your guests to hear your vows (particularly as you don’t really want to be shouting into your partner’s face, and are usually quite emotional during this time!). To ensure that everyone has the chance to hear them, you may choose to share your vows again during speeches later on in the evening. Totally up to you!
Alex & Kate
WOOLSHED WEDDING
10 DECEMBER 2020 - TIPAPA ESTATE, GRETA VALLEY
Alex and Kate were married at the beautiful Tipapa Estate on a gloriously sunny day. It was the perfect garden party - guests dressed to the nines and ready to celebrate in style! Musician Lee Martin set the scene, and photographer Susie Blatchford was there to capture every delicious moment. The bride and groom had worked closely with Kate from Collective Concepts to plan their bespoke ‘All for Love’ wedding package… and it was absolutely magical!
One of my favourite parts of the ceremony was Kate’s entrance with her Dad, Gavin. This is always such a significant moment between father and daughter - I am pretty sure every single person was reaching for the tissues (including me!).
I love getting to know couples and the journey they have shared leading up to their wedding day. Alex and Kate’s story began when they were just 15 - though Alex, thinking Kate was older than she really was and wanting to make a good first impression, lied and said he was 17. If ever there was a sign that two people were meant to be together, it would surely be the fact that these two lovebirds were born in the same hospital on the very same day… and years later, living in the same neighbourhood, their paths were destined to cross.
The pair chose to write their own vows - each starting with the qualities they loved about the other, and finishing with the same promises. “I promise to continue to love you, to respect and support you, to be patient with you, to work together with you to achieve our goals, to accept you unconditionally and to share my life with you forever.”
I loved everything about this couple and their wedding day. All the best for your next chapter - stay in touch! xx
AROHA NUI,
Vic xxx
I highly recommend checking out Collective Concepts ‘All for Love’ wedding packages - “Collective Concepts is proud to introduce Canterbury’s first bespoke all inclusive wedding packages where you can custom create your perfect day that is uniquely you, with the personal and professional guidance of Kate and the team at Collective Concepts, while working in collaboration with an experienced and talented group of wedding vendors all handpicked by you. We can’t wait to get to know you and support you on your wedding planning journey. How good does a wedding day sound where you just bring yourselves, your wedding rings and your marriage license, and let us take care of the rest!”
Musician - Lee Martin
Photographer - Susie Blatchford
Venue - Tipapa Estate
Wedding Planner - Collective Concepts
Ryan & Katie
The Sign of the Bellbird is a stunning location, situated near the top of Summit Road in the Port Hills. It is perfect for elopements and intimate ceremonies!
REGISTRY WEDDING
20 NOVEMBER 2020 - SIGN OF THE BELLBIRD, CHRISTCHURCH
The Sign of the Bellbird is a stunning location, situated near the top of Summit Road in the Port Hills. It is perfect for elopements and intimate ceremonies! The views over Lyttelton Harbour and Hoon Hay Valley are breathtaking and make for beautiful photos (even on my average phone camera!).
Choosing to get married in the evening, Ryan and Katie’s registry wedding was simply magical. They had only their very closest family members and friends present. Despite the windy weather, the stone heritage hut where we held the ceremony was sheltered and offered complete protection from the elements. It was cosy and intimate. There was laughter, tears and even a toast (yes, pack your chilli bin and champagne, friends!!). A perfect way to kickstart the weekend - and of course, the marriage of a lifetime.
Registry Wedding Details
I will…
Offer a choice between two scripts with standard vows (provided by Births, Deaths & Marriages - read both options on pages 2/3/4 here)
Help you to apply for a marriage licence and ensure that legal requirements are met
Travel within the immediate Christchurch area
Print your paperwork to sign on the day
You will…
Provide the venue, two witnesses and optional guests (up to 20 only)
Show me a copy of your ID and pay a set fee of $90 prior to the ceremony taking place
More information about registry ceremonies can be found here.
There is nothing more exciting than beginning a new adventure together. I wish you both the very best for your next chapter! xx
AROHA NUI,
Vic xxx
“Ryan and I would just like to say thanks again for making our day happen! Everything went perfectly. You have great communication, and were very easy and helpful to deal with! Best of luck with your pregnancy and your whānau. Hope to see you again in the teaching world! ”
Corey & Sarah
After 15 years and two beautiful children together, Corey and Sarah were stoked to finally become Mr and Mrs Baker! They were married on the manicured lawn at Larcomb Vineyard, with a rustic red barn as the backdrop to their ceremony.
FIRST PERSONALISED CEREMONY OF THE SEASON!
10TH OCTOBER 2020 - LARCOMB VINEYARD, CHRISTCHURCH
Corey & Sarah - captured by Whimsical Wedding Photography at Larcomb Vineyard
After 15 years and two beautiful children together, Corey and Sarah were stoked to finally become Mr and Mrs Baker! They were married on the manicured lawn at Larcomb Vineyard, with a rustic red barn as the backdrop to their ceremony. I loved the entrance of the bridal party, lead by the cutest little Flower Girl and Page Boys you ever did see.
We acknowledged special family members and friends who are no longer with us, and those unable to travel due to Covid restrictions. Despite the rain, the smiles were bright - especially during Corey’s cheeky vows! And… instead of traditional confetti, the guests blew bubbles over the newly married couple as they walked down the aisle. Perfection!
“Sarah, my best friend, my love. You are the lucky one that gets to grow old with me… After being together for almost 15 years now, you have helped to shape me into the man I have become, and I am very grateful to have you by my side. With your kind heart, beautiful eyes and nice arse... I couldn’t ask for more!”
“Always remember I'd choose you, in a hundred lifetimes, in a hundred worlds, in any version of reality… I'd find you and I’d choose you.”
One of the coolest things about Larcomb Vineyard is that there are plenty of different locations to take portraits. The contrasting colours of the bright red shed with the deep greenery of the forestry made for beautiful photos, and Charmayne from Whimsical Wedding Photography did an amazing job capturing this badass crew!
Congratulations Mr and Mrs Baker! #finally
AROHA NUI,
Vic xxx
Photographer - Whimsical Photography
Venue - Larcomb Vineyard
Videographer - Moustache Media
“Thank you so much for being a part of our special day! You were very chilled and relaxed like us, which made the vibe so good. I will definitely be recommending you to anyone who asks! Once again, thank you.”